Is putting intimacy on the calendar the secret to keeping your connection alive — or the fastest way to kill the mood?

In this episode of Do You Feel That?, we dive into one of the biggest debates in modern relationships: whether sex should be spontaneous or scheduled. We explore why spontaneity feels so exciting, why scheduling might actually increase satisfaction, and what the research really says about both approaches.

We also share practical ways to make planning feel sexy instead of routine — plus how to find a middle ground through what we call intentional intimacy.

If you’ve ever struggled to balance busy lives with a thriving sex life, this conversation is for you.