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Our 12 Favorite Things — The Products We Actually Use and Why We Love Them

Our 12 Favorite Things — The Products We Actually Use and Why We Love Them

Episode 39 · · 01:18:10

Looking for the best sex toys for couples? Wondering what intimacy products are actually worth buying and which ones collect dust in a drawer? In this episode, Scott and Brittney sha...

Lube: The Beginner's Guide to the Most Underrated Tool in Your Intimacy Toolkit

Lube: The Beginner's Guide to the Most Underrated Tool in Your Intimacy Toolkit

Episode 38 · · 47:18

It's in a lot of couples' nightstands. Almost nobody talks about it honestly. Today we fix that.In Episode 38, Scott and Brittney break down everything couples need to know about per...

Why Most People Are Bad in Bed And Don't Know It

Why Most People Are Bad in Bed And Don't Know It

Episode 37 · · 50:51

Most people rate themselves as above average in bed. Statistically, that's impossible. And the gap between how people assess their own performance and what their partner is actually ...

The 90-Day Relationship State of the Union — A Check-In Every Couple Should Be Doing

The 90-Day Relationship State of the Union — A Check-In Every Couple Should Be Doing

Episode 36 · · 46:10

Most couples have annual physicals, quarterly financial reviews, and performance check-ins at work. Their relationship — the most important thing in their lives — gets evaluated only...

Hot Takes — Our Most Unpopular Opinions About Sex and Relationships

Hot Takes — Our Most Unpopular Opinions About Sex and Relationships

Episode 35 · · 53:11

No frameworks. No research drops. No homework. Just opinions — and our most unpopular ones.In Episode 35, Scott and Brittney bring five genuine hot takes about sex and relationships ...

The Three Dimensions of Sex — Which One Are You Actually Craving?

The Three Dimensions of Sex — Which One Are You Actually Craving?

Episode 34 · · 01:07:44

When couples say they want better sex, they're usually wanting three completely different things — and most of the time they don't realize they're in different conversations.In Episo...

Attachment Styles — And What They're Doing to Your Sex Life

Attachment Styles — And What They're Doing to Your Sex Life

Episode 33 · · 55:15

Why do you feel anxious after really good sex? Why does your partner pull away right when things get close? Why does a dry spell feel like evidence that the relationship is falling a...

Your Enneagram Type in Bed — What Each Number Actually Needs

Your Enneagram Type in Bed — What Each Number Actually Needs

Episode 32 · · 01:09:28

You know your Enneagram number. But do you know what it's been quietly telling you about what you need in bed?Following the success of last week's Love Languages episode, Scott and B...

The 5 Love Languages — But Make It Spicy

The 5 Love Languages — But Make It Spicy

Episode 31 · · 40:50

You know your love language. But do you know what it looks like in bed?In Episode 31, Scott and Brittney take Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages — one of the most widely recognized r...

Would You Rather — The Couples Intimacy Edition

Would You Rather — The Couples Intimacy Edition

Episode 30 · · 49:19

No research drops. No homework. Just a game — and a surprisingly revealing one.In Episode 30, Scott and Brittney play Would You Rather: Couples Intimacy Edition. Fifteen questions, r...

The Female Orgasm — What Most Men Still Don't Understand

The Female Orgasm — What Most Men Still Don't Understand

Episode 29 · · 39:25

The orgasm gap is one of the most documented — and least honestly discussed — realities in sexual research. In heterosexual sex, men orgasm 95% of the time. Women? 65%. And that gap ...

The Intimacy Bucket List — 10 Sexual Experiences Every Couple Should Try

The Intimacy Bucket List — 10 Sexual Experiences Every Couple Should Try

Episode 28 · · 48:52

We made our actual Intimacy Bucket List. Then we told you which ones we've done.In Episode 28, Scott and Brittney get personal with 10 sexual experiences every couple should try at l...

10 Intimacy Myths We Believed (And Had to Unlearn)

10 Intimacy Myths We Believed (And Had to Unlearn)

Episode 27 · · 58:06

Where did you learn about sex and intimacy? Movies? Church? A locker room? A well-meaning friend who was just as clueless as you?Most of us absorbed our earliest beliefs about intima...

Anal Sex for Beginners — What Nobody Tells You But Everyone Wants to Know

Anal Sex for Beginners — What Nobody Tells You But Everyone Wants to Know

Episode 26 · · 42:44

One of the most searched, least honestly discussed topics in couples' intimacy — and we're going there.In this episode, Scott and Brittney tackle anal sex for beginners: the real sta...

The Intimacy Audit — How Connected Are You Really?

The Intimacy Audit — How Connected Are You Really?

Episode 25 · · 55:51

How connected are you — really?Not how connected you used to be. Not how connected you intend to be. Right now, today — how well do you actually know what your partner is carrying, w...

The 10-Minute Intimacy Reset — Small Rituals That Keep Couples Close

The 10-Minute Intimacy Reset — Small Rituals That Keep Couples Close

Episode 24 · · 34:19

You don't need a weekend retreat to feel close again. You need six seconds.In Episode 24, Scott and Brittney break down the research-backed micro-rituals that keep connected couples ...

What Do You Actually Want to Feel? The Power of Core Desires

What Do You Actually Want to Feel? The Power of Core Desires

Episode 23 · · 50:38

What if the reason your sex life feels stuck has nothing to do with what you're doing — and everything to do with what you're feeling?In Episode 23, Scott and Brittney introduce one ...

Does Size Really Matter? Facts, Feelings & the Real Conversation Couples Aren't Having

Does Size Really Matter? Facts, Feelings & the Real Conversation Couples Aren't Having

Episode 22 · · 45:56

It's one of the most Googled questions in the history of relationships — and one of the least talked about honestly. In this episode, Scott and Brittney tackle the penis size convers...

Top 10 Intimacy Mistakes Couples Make in Marriage (And How to Fix Them)

Top 10 Intimacy Mistakes Couples Make in Marriage (And How to Fix Them)

Episode 21 · · 58:01

Most couples don’t struggle with intimacy because they don’t love each other — they struggle because they’re making common mistakes without realizing it.In this episode of Do You Fee...

Our Top 3 Tips for Better Sex

Our Top 3 Tips for Better Sex

Episode 20 · · 40:45

If we had to narrow everything we’ve learned about intimacy down to just three things, this would be it.In this episode of Do You Feel That?, we share our top three foundations for b...