No frameworks. No research drops. No homework. Just opinions — and our most unpopular ones.
In Episode 35, Scott and Brittney bring five genuine hot takes about sex and relationships that go against conventional wisdom, popular advice, and what most people want to hear. Then they defend every single one.
Scheduled sex is better than spontaneous sex. Most couples don't need more communication — they need better listening. The word "foreplay" should be retired. A sexless period isn't a crisis but ignoring it is. And the best thing you can do for your sex life has nothing to do with sex.
Plus a rapid-fire round of five more takes that are going to make at least one of you spill your coffee.
This is the episode you listen to on the way to dinner and spend the whole meal talking about.
In this episode:
- Hot Take #1: Scheduled sex is better than spontaneous sex — full stop
- Hot Take #2: Most couples need better listening, not more communication
- Hot Take #3: "Foreplay" is a useless and damaging category that should be retired
- Hot Take #4: A dry spell isn't a crisis — ignoring it is
- Hot Take #5: The best thing you can do for your sex life has nothing to do with sex
- Rapid fire: five more takes in 30 seconds each
- Scott & Brittney react to each other — and don't always agree
Remember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided.
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Episode 35
